Posted by emmaley on March 28, 2004, at 20:48:39
In reply to Re: Frustrated! » emmaley, posted by Dinah on March 26, 2004, at 21:23:38
Actually, I think that was what he meant. I think it was a good question actually, a legitimate one. I just think that he missed a step--checking in me with about how I felt having letting him read the letter. Now that I think about it; the same things have happened before, too, (and I did tell him several times and he did apologize.) I think he tends to become more cognitive whenever things get more intense, which I find irritating. I need to feel more attended to regarding my affect before tracking my thought patterns.
I am not sure if he likes to see me cry. I think he gets a little nervous because he always asks qusetions instead of waiting for me to stop crying. Kinda kills the flow of tears, and I told him that, too. He does get better after I tell him.
Men. (I know; I know, silly generalization that definitely doesn't apply across the board.)
:)
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