Posted by Joslynn on March 25, 2004, at 15:07:32
In reply to Re: My X T Called Me ..., posted by pinkeye on March 25, 2004, at 14:40:58
Pink, my recall is that HE dumped HER, but I will let TooMuch speak for herself.
TooMuch, Here is what I would do if I were you:
Take the text of the post you made describing the recent phone call. Put it in an MS Word document or whatever with date, time and what he said.
Then, if he calls again, don't pick up the phone. Do you have an answering machine with an old-fashioned tape? If so, tape the call, type what he says into your document, and bring the tape with you to the hearing. Or, if it's just electronic, type up his exact words.
His phone call was manipulative and unprofessional. But in a weird way, it's good, because it can give the hearing committee info they need. He may not get fired, he may actually become a better therapist because of this.
It's not your job to take care of his feelings and well-being. That was supposed to be his job. He dropped the ball.
Actually, if I were you, I would search for all your posts on here and use it to construct a timeline of the events. I don't mean that you have to post the name of this board and all that, just use your posts as sort of an online journal to help you remember key facts, and cut and paste when necessary.
Just my .02.
Please go thru with the hearing. You can do it, you are brave! And at least it's coming up soon so you don't have to agonize for too long.
poster:Joslynn
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