Posted by EmmyS on March 25, 2004, at 14:22:51
In reply to My X T Called Me ..., posted by toomuchpain on March 25, 2004, at 12:47:15
Your behavior didn't get him in hot water. It was HIS behavior that was the problem. I don't think he didn't do anything he'd lose his license over. He may just need to limit his practice to males, or older females until he gains enough experience to handle himself better.
He NEEDS the assistance that this board action will give him. He should have gotten it from his his supervisor. If he had an honest relationship with his supervisor, and with himself, it all could have been settled there. But somehow, it wasn't.
And when he saw your name on his list of new clients at the second agency, he should have stopped dead in his tracks and told the program director not to assign you. He didn't. That was unethical. He needs to either GET HELP, or change careers. It's up to him.
You are helping him! Really truly helping him. He hasn't been able to help himself. You are doing a good thing for him - he just doesn't understand that yet.
And that phone call....it's a violation of everything he was taught in school. I'd report that to the agency asap. He worries me. That behavior is irrational.
(In my not-always-so-humble opinion!)
Emmy
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