Posted by Fallen4myT on March 20, 2004, at 21:23:03
In reply to Re: Questions about transference » Tancred62, posted by lonelygirl on March 20, 2004, at 11:51:10
Hahahaha Lonelygirl I too have wondered IF I got my T how long till I bored of him :) He does have crappy taste in music and works a lot :P Still I would give it a whirl..I have had other relationships crash and burn so why not this one too lol
> Once again, I identify so much with what you said here about the relationships (well, except the part about liking women). Even though I am always wishing I had a relationship, I always think about things like that -- how much I would hate to have to worry about someone else's schedules, routines, wants, and needs. Then I feel selfish for thinking that way. A major difference between you and me, though, is that I have never been in a relationship (I have never even been on a date), so I can only speculate about these things.
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> Anyway, in an attempt to remain "on topic," something that is hard for me in my "relationship" with my psychologist is that I like him so much that I feel like I wouldn't mind so much to go along with his routines and needs. I guess that makes it more difficult to convince myself that I don't *really* want a relationship. Of course, even this is only in theory; perhaps if reality were suspended and I did have an actual relationship with him, I would tire of it anyway. I guess I'll never know.
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