Posted by rs on March 2, 2004, at 18:43:42
In reply to New Writing Assignment, posted by DaisyM on March 1, 2004, at 21:39:48
Hi Daisy. Hope all is going well with you. The effects of trauma
1. Pain and denial
2. Others inside (also positive)
3. Trust issues
4. Nghtmares paranoid
5. Intimacy
6. Lost childhood.
Many more but would be too long
Postive in therapy
Having someone really believe. See the pain that is lived every day. Listen with full attention and caring. Does not doubt. Cares. Carrys the burden. Speaks on how it is not our fault along with shame. Were not bad and did not deserve it no matter what. Likes us no matter what is said or done. Treats like human people.
The negative side.
Never enough time. Scarey to depened on someone for some kind of peace in life. To pick up the phone call if need to. Vunerable. Fear of loosing them and will they leave.
Daisy hope things get better for you. Hear how hard this has been for you at times and understand. Your a great person that good things will come some day. You deserve it. Also your T sounds wonderful. Do not fear that he will give up on you or leave you. He cares and tell yourself that he will be walking right with you through this whole process. And so what if it takes years or whatever. You deserve a break with help and caring.
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