Posted by tinydancer on February 29, 2004, at 2:28:31
In reply to Why am I wanting to push my T. away right now?, posted by KindGirl on February 28, 2004, at 22:08:02
I have gone through this phase too and remember how confusing it was. I wished that I had never opened Pandora's box. The only thing that helps me is to trust in the choices I made. It is too late to go back and revoke the things I have told.
I was recently in a phase now where I felt anger at my T because he can just sit there and give me a bunch of no's. No, you can't have a hug, you can't have me, no no no! It seems so easy. We have talked about this though, and I understand better his standpoint.
But it is so hard to feel like you invest so much in a sort of one sided relationship. Ah, the woes of therapy....
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