Posted by Dinah on February 17, 2004, at 8:28:29
In reply to Re: Why don't I ever learn? » Dinah, posted by Raindancer on February 17, 2004, at 6:14:08
You're still characterizing your googling him as "abuse", and it just isn't. And it sounds as if he was trying to calm you down by asking that question, so that maybe he asked it more for you than for him.
You haven't seen him for a month. Maybe that's just too long to go between session. You were talking about termination. Maybe this is a sign you are not quite ready yet. At any rate, all of those are important issues, and I hope you feel comfortable enough with him to tell him those things, even if you don't admit the googling.
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