Posted by crushedout on February 7, 2004, at 21:14:48
In reply to Re: can we ever be lovers » crushedout, posted by Dinah on February 7, 2004, at 21:08:36
> If you really love her, wouldn't you want what was best for her? Would possibly ending her career and possibly losing her family be a good thing for the woman you love?
>Oh, yes, it would have to be what's best for her. If this fantasy were to come true, I'm imagining it a long way down the road (at least two years after she stopped being my T, so it wouldn't be an ethical violation), and my assumption is that things would not have worked out with her husband. I'm not saying that I expect her to get a divorce, but that would probably be a condition for my fantasy coming true. And keep in mind that this is only a dim hope. I was actually imagining this ten years down the road, when I'm 42 and she's 53. It's really just a fantasy, Dinah, but not an impossible one is what I'm saying.
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