Posted by Dinah on February 5, 2004, at 19:38:10
In reply to sorry I'm a pain, Dinah, posted by crushedout on February 5, 2004, at 19:33:47
You aren't a pain, Crushed. I *do* wish you didn't have to *feel* this kind of pain.
Maybe it will make you feel better to remember that it isn't your job to help her "foreclose possibilities." It's hers, and hers alone.
I just don't want to see you hurt any more than you have to be. :( And I'm sad that her actions have contributed to the pain that you can't avoid, because you're already feeling it.
poster:Dinah
thread:309823
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040131/msgs/309944.html