Posted by Karen_kay on January 30, 2004, at 19:41:57
In reply to Oh my gosh, my old therapist hates me., posted by michmich on January 30, 2004, at 2:37:08
I think the best thing to do at this point is to find a new therapist if you haven't yet. This relationship doesn't sound healthy. I understand that you are really attached to your old therapist, but it's probably best at this point to start healing those wounds and move on. It won't be easy, but it may be the best for both parties involved.
Also, what did she mean by, "You can contact her in February"? Does that suggest that you could start seeing her again as a client? Or have some sort of an outside relationship?
I honestly think your best option is to start therapy with a new therapist and try to work through the feelings you have regarding your old therapist, as well as your unresolved issues that were neglected by this current (pardon me for saying this) mess that your therapist is putting you through. Isn't it strange though, when you start therapy the issues that therapists add the your plate. Sometimes it just doesn't seem fair... But, was anything like this a problem before you started therapy? (Just asking)
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