Posted by michmich on January 30, 2004, at 2:37:08
I dont know what to do....I am a university student, and i used to see a women for counseling for 2 whole years. the supervisor terminated therapy because i have obsessive boughts with her. But we still care for eachother. On monday i got obsessive again, so she said she would not contact me until february cuz she does not want to feed the obsession. since then i have been sending her one line emails that are non threatening but just pathetic...she has not responded. today i actually called her house..and she called my house back and told me not to call her at her house and hung up. i called her back, and told her her not to call my house and asked why is she she doing this to me. she then says "uve been contacting me, emailing me, you called my house, i said u can cantact me in february! you want a future relationship..its impossible like this! if u call again im calling the police" so obviously im not calling again. But im furious...i know i should not do what im doing, but i dont think she wright either. If she wants a future relationship, then she shouldnt ignore me for a week, im not her pateint anymore! anyway, im scared she hates me now, and i dont know what to do. should i still cantact her in february? Im so angry and feel a million other feelings too. Ive been tossing and turning all ngiht. please help. thanks all.
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thread:307164
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