Posted by crushedout on January 28, 2004, at 11:04:14
In reply to Re: Interesting book and a question about boundaries, posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 28, 2004, at 10:58:48
yeah, that's one of my worries, too. but it seems irrational. i mean, *why* would she feel awkward or guilty? because it would remind her that she f'ed up? she remembers that anyway.and, in my case, i have to disagree that self-restraint is good. i restrain myself way too much. i'm trying to learn to open up.
> I'm wondering if your Therapist would feel awkward about receiving another cd? If she realized her giving you a cd was a boundary crossing, I wonder if she would somehow feel guilty or wierd about getting another from you. I know therapy is about you and not her, but sometimes restraint is best.
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