Posted by Asya on January 26, 2004, at 22:48:32
I posted a few weeks back that I discovered thru a little research that my T's young daughter (I think she was 6 or 7) drowned in a nearby lake about 6 years ago. I found a newspaper article on it that was available online. Does anyone have any supportive suggestions besides talking to my T that might help? I am kind of hung up on it. I think about it a lot and feel horrible for her, but I truly feel that it is disrespectful to bring up such a painful event to her. I don't think it is really affecting my therapy too much when I am there, but I guess I just have those general weird feelings of the relationship being so one-sided that are intensified with this. Do you guys sort of instinctively ask your Ts "How are you?" or answer 'Good. How are you?" when they ask? I mean, are we NOT supposed to ask how they are? WHY AM I SO OBSESSED. ARGHHH. Thanks in advance.
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