Posted by Miss Honeychurch on January 15, 2004, at 10:25:29
In reply to Some ruminations about what to tell our Ts, posted by Asya on January 14, 2004, at 20:32:35
I have done something fairly despicable in my opinion while "researching" my therapist. I feel pretty awful about it actually.
I really want to know if he is married and has any daughters (you see, I want to be his only one!). I know he has 2 sons just through casual conversation. He told me several months ago that his mother had died the week before. I looked up her last name on a database here at the University where I work and found out she was an alumna. So I found her first name. I then did an internet search on her obituary, just so I could find out who was listed as next of kin. My T was listed, but no wife, and 6 grandchildren were listed (all boys).
I feel so dirty for doing this. But I just HAD to know. And of course I will NEVER tell him I did this (unless of course he reads Babble, God I hope not).
poster:Miss Honeychurch
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