Posted by Pfinstegg on January 7, 2004, at 20:47:09
In reply to Re: So, it turned out to be an AFGO!, posted by Dinah on January 7, 2004, at 17:40:26
Hi Dinah! I haven't been posting for a while, as I got so involved in my own therapy, and didn't know what to post about all the stuff that was happening there! But I have been following what others have been posting every few days, and always follow your posts, so I did want to reply to what you described about your therapist.
I don't think it is helpful to you when your therapist calls you annoying, or gets angry at you. It's too much like what probably happened a lot when you were a child. Even given that therapists make mistakes, I think the mistakes should be very uncommon- even rare. It's a difficult situation for you to be in, as now you need to speak up for yourself and clarify the whole counter-tranference which HE has. It's very hard to do that, but from having followed your posts here for more than a year, I feel certain that you are getting better, and that he has been a good therapist to you, so it's worth doing. Awfully hard, though. Let us know what happens, will you?
Pfinstegg
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