Posted by DaisyM on January 6, 2004, at 23:16:38
In reply to Re: she said no so she passed the test » DaisyM, posted by crushedout on January 6, 2004, at 20:54:45
<<<One other addendum: she said that if she saw me tomorrow, she'd feel rushed, and she didn't want to address these issues in that context, but wanted to do it calmly when she felt she had more time.
>>>I don't really get that either. Rushed? Haven't you had a conversation, or 2 about what happened? I think if she needs space, she should just say that. It sounds like she is trying really hard to get herself back on the professional side of line. And you are right, you did give her the out, so maybe she saw it as a test. I guess it is just going to be like walking on eggshells for awhile.
I admire how well you are handling this and how honest you are being with her and yourself. I know it isn't easy.
Take good care.
-D
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