Posted by crushedout on January 6, 2004, at 20:54:45
In reply to Re: she said no so she passed the test » crushedout, posted by DaisyM on January 6, 2004, at 19:21:16
P.S. Her schedule didn't change. It was just our conversations and thinking about it that led her to decide not to see me (till Thursday, mind you).
One other addendum: she said that if she saw me tomorrow, she'd feel rushed, and she didn't want to address these issues in that context, but wanted to do it calmly when she felt she had more time.
I keep going back and forth on whether she's really screwed up or just doing the best she can and is actually pretty straightforward.
> I'm glad you are OK with the No. I have to say though, in reading your posts, that the back and forth stuff *isn't* really holding the boundaries because they keep shifting. I realize that I am slow to trust and to ask for help but, if I had even a hint that I was making it difficult for my Therapist, I would shut down. And have.
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> That said, it sounds like you are aware of what you are doing and feel therapy is helping. This is really great. And, maybe she just got full between the time she said she could and the time you called back.
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> Hang in there. I know you are going through a rough time.
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