Posted by DaisyM on December 31, 2003, at 12:30:31
In reply to Re: I'm lost ... but not so far away... » DaisyM, posted by Kalamatianos on December 31, 2003, at 1:30:05
Sometimes being a control freak is creating a sense of safety for yourself, whether you realize this or not.
I think part of what I am working on is seperating responsibilities from obligations. I am so good at being responsible to everyone but myself. As in, "take care of yourself" to me *feels* like something I don't know how to do and will fail at. This is most likely because I've let *me* get lost...who I am and what I really want, because I am so responsible. I know that is a muddled explanations and until I know who I am how will I know when I am enough??
Is color a factor in all of this or in your question? What does this mean?
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