Posted by crushedout on September 3, 2003, at 9:31:08
In reply to Re: I Agree With Dinah kara rigby stebby, posted by allisonf on September 2, 2003, at 20:15:37
Thanks for all your input, it was really interesting. I guess I will try to bring it up with her today, or soon at least. I feel pretty confident that nothing will ever happen between us, so I'm not sure that her flirtation with me is that damaging. Maybe she trusts that I know that. But I agree it was a dangerous thing for her to do and probably not a great idea. I'm so glad she did it anyway. Just knowing that she's attracted to me makes me feel good. I'm not sure that's such a bad thing.
But it definitely should help to talk about it. That way, she can make it crystal clear what the boundaries are and I can completely accept that she will only ever be my therapist. :( I guess that's a good thing, since she's a good one, and if she became my lover that would totally mess up the therapy (not to mention damage me psychologically beyond belief -- I realize that rationally even though it feels like it would be so healing to be physically intimate with her).
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