Posted by Alleecat64 on August 5, 2003, at 2:19:18
Hi,
I would like to know if there is anyone who has dealt with someone who "has" BPD and with someone at the same time has been physically and verbally abusive?
I don't know anymore too much on how to get someone like that any type of help.
I feel as though I am screwed. This person has continually threatened to do serious harm to me if I leave, however, they do "enough" damage on the regular for simply existing. I never know if this time they will actually cross that line (because they have done so before, at least that final line), it feels as if it is a no win situation. I want them to get help, but I also see it is almost beyond them. if saying it for 2 years now hasn't done anything what will.
The other problem (a little eerie) but my twin sister is married and has a daughter with his twin brother (who essentially, but to a lesser degree is the same)and I could potentially or my sister and niece for that matter, could possibly suffer some sort of backlash or "revenge".
Any suggestions or anyone experiencing similar things would helpful to hear from.
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thread:248185
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