Posted by joseph8 on August 13, 2002, at 2:22:45
In reply to Depression and memory loss, posted by michaelb on August 12, 2002, at 11:36:46
your lucky that your wife still wants you. I once cheated on my girlfriend and she took me back. then I did it again and I was history. I felt terrible that I had lost a woman that I loved and it got worse as time went on because instead of getting over her I realized how much I missed her and what a fool I had been. if you love your wife tell her and act like you do. she will want to help you too if she loves you. although your wife wont go with you , you should get therapy by your self. Look at it from your wifes perspective although asking for help and seeking out a therapist should be acceptable , the truth is that there is stigma attached to it and if there is nothing wrong with your wife she might not want that stigma associated with herself. Do all in your power to keep your wife. as for your questions , I would say they are irrelevant. get on with your life , you have done it now so get on with making amends
good luck
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