Posted by terra miller on August 6, 2002, at 21:22:57
In reply to Re: Terra, posted by Dinah on August 6, 2002, at 17:42:53
> Sorry if I was a bit short.
didn't seem short at all to me
>I'm having a bad case of babblers remorse about bringing up what happened. Apparently "she" isn't too happy about my discussing her. :(
oh man, been there/done that. from my experience it's a good idea to go with it. sometimes you can make deals. you give some/she gives some. the more you listen, the more respect you get. validation is everything; validation and respect. you respect her and then you realize all of sudden that you seem to respect yourself more. it's a cool process.
take care.
terra
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