Posted by judy1 on August 1, 2002, at 16:50:51
In reply to Re: Having difficulty with shrink (my problem) » judy1, posted by terra miller on August 1, 2002, at 11:11:41
You're still going to your therapist, right? And the shrink is just for meds? When I went shrink shopping (and yes it is incredibly draining), my internist helped with meds too- in case your refills run out from your old shrink. All I did was bring my bottles so he could see what I was taking. He did it for about 6 months until he really pushed me, I think he was concerned I needed 'real' help.
As far as my shrink- I liked your idea of writing things down, do you thinkit would be a mistake to give it to him? I expect so much from him, and he does remind me of my old shrink in some ways, so maybe that's some of the anger. My therapist wants me to try someone local that she really likes- but I think I would rather drive the 100 miles and try to repair my relationship with my shrink now. I've had him for 2 years now, and I know you understand how difficult it would be to start over with trust. The difference is he does therapy with me (not just meds) which I think is important because I'm so labile, he needs to understand me. As far as abandonment, you've got that right. My number one fear. I wish I had the money (he doesn't take insurance) and energy (to drive) to make things right. Sorry for going on so much. Take care, judy
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