Posted by Jost on September 18, 2006, at 22:20:59
In reply to Re: Question to better understand (trigger) » MidnightBlue, posted by Poet on September 18, 2006, at 20:41:46
I'm a little strange about eating, but I hate to put other people out, or let them know that my eating preferences are unusual.
I always am very grateful if someone likes to know what I want, or remembers. And especially if they go to any trouble to make something for me.
Maybe you could ask her, each time she comes over, for a while-- or ask her husband, if that's more comfortable-- what she'd like for dinner.
Poet's idea that she's being picky to control what she eats sounds very plausible. So maybe she has some general idea, but also it depends on how she's feeling or what she's eaten. After a while, you might get a much better idea of what she'd really be happy with.
It's really sweet, though, that you care.
Jost
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