Posted by ert on August 31, 2018, at 13:58:53
In reply to Re: alexandra, posted by alexandra_k on August 30, 2018, at 23:24:34
> > > You blame tourists, politicians, even cities and more for the sake of your unstable and erratic inner self
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> I have learned to ask the question: If I believe that: Who profits?
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> Other people profit for my internalising the blame. It makes me weak and powerless. It makes me feel whiney and feel self-pity. It makes me want to curl up in bed and hide and mope.
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> But I feel like my eyes have been opened. To who profits from my feeling that way? And that helps me feel more resiliant with respect to people doing what they can to induce those feelings in me.
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> If I am unstable and erratic (and nobody has called me that for a long time) it's normal behavior for the settings I've found myself in. That's how come other people have been determined to keep themself out of those settings and for them to keep some other poor sucker in those settings.
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> I don't have to join them... But I do have to see what it is that many people are up to... So I am resilant towards them, yeah. I don't have to play those games... But I do have to realise those are the games that many people are playing so that I don't get suckered in.I have not read your posts from the pasts except the present. I do not like to read anything from other people other than that they write at the present. Maybe it seems a bit that you are recovering. At the end of such a process is a phase of release or leave hold of it. Most people think only short-sighted. they do not care much what will be in the years coming down the road. You will not be able to release your label and you can be prone to flashbacks or risks. However it is individual and also depended on what grounds someone is recovering or not recovering. Personally I would not care other people delete or leave hold because it is their own wish and I would not want to coerce somebody into doing something. Mileage may vary from age, gender, life situation this is besides what laws say
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