Posted by HomelyCygnet on January 23, 2014, at 15:04:59
In reply to Re: please rephrase that, posted by alexandra_k on January 23, 2014, at 13:38:55
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> you hurt him. and he didn't know what else to do / have a better way to deal with that to prevent the situation escalating. wasn't that clear?Nope. There was no situation to escalate. You are just parroting things he has said in the past. Why doesn't he know a better way? Such as treating everyone equally? Do you think Bob needs professional help? He has been bullying twinleaf for years. This is nothing new. Other people said practically the same thing and he ignored it.
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> sometimes... some people just don't bug us. even though it can be the same thing as stuff that someone else has said. you are usually... caring and supportive with your posts. you don't tend to fly off the handle (when it is clear that you are having a bit of a meltdown so it is easier for others to not take it personally). you don't go around dig dig here and a dig dig there - so it is easier for others not to take it personally.. instead... you are all calm and collected... posting stuff about how Bob doesn't have any feelings. but you hurt him. oh... the irony.
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> is that the right word??>
No it's not. I think you are projecting your own feelings about ole Bob on the situation. I think you should explore your fantasy that you are one of the few people capable of understanding Bob. And consider why you need to be his apologist.
Duckling I listen and for many a time I have been half in love and many a time much more
poster:HomelyCygnet
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