Posted by HomelyCygnet on January 23, 2014, at 12:52:08
In reply to Re: please rephrase that, posted by Twinleaf on January 23, 2014, at 12:24:34
I admire a woman who can type with her fingers crossed ;)
> OK. although I still do not understand the basis or reasons for your unusually harsh attitude towards me, and undoubtedly never will, I want to keep my options here open a bit longer. I do not think it's healthy to be put into a position where you have to say goodbye suddenly after a relationship which has lasted10 years, so, change my comments to read;
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> "respect and appreciation on Bob's part"
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> "very warm comments"
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> I was startled that you seemed to think that I wanted to replicate my therapeutic relationship in discussions with you - that seemed to me to be a very inappropriate comment, and is not evenly remotely the case. At the top of this page, you yourself have written, "discussion ..is not therapy". That is a wise statement that is very worth adhering to, not just in your interactions with me, but with the several other posters with whom you have introduced an unrequested therapeutic element.
Duckling I listen and for many a time I have been half in love and many a time much more
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