Posted by Lou Pilder on August 17, 2013, at 17:54:31
In reply to Re: a refuge, posted by Dr. Bob on July 20, 2013, at 3:17:51
> > It is extremely painful and distressing to read these exchanges. In my view, you are doing two things which are enraging and infuriating everyone. The first is that you do not acknowledge everyone's concerns over Lou's breaking of the civility rules. The second is that you do not appear to respect and understand what posters are trying to communicate to you.
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> What I hear some posters saying is that:
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> 1a. Lou isn't being civil.
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> 1b. Which is driving posters away from Babble, and from treatment, both of which might help them.
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> 2. So I should enforce the civility rules.
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> I value civility and agree that both Babble and treatment can help people.
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> How was that?
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> Bobtl,
Now you say,[...everyone's concerns of Lou breaking the civility rules...].
Be advised that what you have said about me here could decrease the respect, regard and confidence in which I am held and induce hostile feelings toward me. Since there are no URLs here to support your claim about me, I do not have the opportunity to show that I am abiding by the prohibitions to me by Mr. Hsiung and the rules as other members also abide by in the human condition. If *everyone* is concerned about what I post here, could they also be concerned about what others post here? And I post from a Jewish perspective as revealed to me. And how are they to know what rules you say are being broken if posts by me are not able to be known so that I could show the context that the posts are in? Do you think that I could be made into a scapegoat for people's real or imagined things here that could lead to hatred toward me being promulgated toward me here? And do you think that I could be stigmatized by what you have posted here about me? Could not violence be perpetrated against me by what you have said about me here?
I am asking readers to read the post in the following link.
Lou
http:/www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20130702/msgs/1049210.html
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:1046456
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20130702/msgs/1049227.html