Posted by Lou Pilder on August 17, 2013, at 17:28:18
In reply to Re: the big picture » sleepygirl2, posted by sleepygirl2 on July 10, 2013, at 21:16:33
> As far as the processing thing....
> Sometimes, it really goes nowhere, so I don't engage in it.
>
> If I can't solve a problem, I just accept it, and make a decision in my best interest.... Hopefully
> Like for instance,
> Not reading Lou's posts
> Not because I care all that much, I do, a little, but there's not a damn thing I can do about it.
> There doesn't seem to be anything anyone can do about it, except Lou, of course.
>
> sg,
You wrote the above.
Now I don't claim to be an A student, but the statement that you use, {there's not a damn thing I can do about it}, could induce hostile and disagreeable feelings toward me and decrease the respect that I am held. This is all because readers have a wide variety of thinking processes that some IMHO could think that there is something about me that needs to be done and that there is not a damn thing one can do. This could stigmatize me and unless you post some URLs to exemplify your statement about me, I do not have the opportunity to present my side of what you have posted to protect myself from any violence that could be induced against me as a result of people reading what you wrote about me and being led to think of me in hostile terms. You see, I do not think that posting from a Jewish perspective as revealed to me has to have something done about it, which by what you wrote about me, IMO, some people could think.
Lou
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