Posted by Dinah on October 30, 2012, at 7:40:29
In reply to Lou's response-veygg » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on October 30, 2012, at 7:27:43
Nevertheless it is true. I stated that you were indeed a child of God, and that as such you are worthy of caring and respect.
People can be angry at your actions without hating you, Lou. I'm angry that what I intended as support was met as an attack. But I still support you as a person, and as a child of God.
It's sometimes hard to separate that out isn't it? Despite the fact that it's something I was always taught, it did take some time in therapy to truly accept that it was ok for someone to be angry with me, and that it didn't mean they hated me.
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