Posted by Lou Pilder on October 30, 2012, at 7:03:52
In reply to Re: correction:: Lou's response-psashizm » Phil, posted by Dinah on October 29, 2012, at 22:54:52
> Lou is a child of God. We all are.
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> I have to admit that I don't understand the anger at Lou personally. I can understand anger at his actions. It's perfectly understandable to expect to be treated with civility. But lack of insight is something a good many of us struggle with from time to time. And the more ill we are, the less insight we have. What is there in that to be angry with? The behaviors, yes, the situation most definitely.
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> I don't think it's particularly pleasant to be on Babble right now, or very healthy for everyone. I don't like unmoderated boards myself for that and many other reasons. If we as a board can't find a way to deal with something we can't control, then I can't see this as being a better place any time soon.
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> I hope you feel better soon, Phil. And I hope that when you're feeling a bit better, you'll feel better able to cope here if you wish to be with the folks on Babble. If it's better for you to be away, I certainly understand that too.
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> Take care, and be very careful with the medications that excite the nervous system. Can you call your pdoc?D,
YOu wrote,[...I don't understand the anger at Lou...anger at his actions... its perfectly understandable to be treated with civility...anger with..the situation...].
Note my objection to what you wrote here. It could arouse ill-will toward me because:
A. Your use of of {his actions} do not specify what the actions are
B. Your use of {treated with civility) does not specify as to that I am not treated with civility or someone else is not treated with civility, nor do you specify what the (un)civility is.
C. In your use of {anger..with the situation}, you do not specify what the situation is that one has anger at or who is or is not having the anger.
Be advised, that I am defending myself against hostility that is directed at me here which is what hate is. If you could go on with your post here and specify what you want to mean, then others could have a concrete understanding of the words and phrases that you use and not have to guess what they mean and to who the subjec person(s) could be. This I ask so that if I need to defend myself against accusations that are false, that could damage me, I could have that opportunity here.
Lou
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