Posted by Phil on October 24, 2012, at 16:48:26
In reply to Lou's reply-phyerofheyt-wurst, posted by Lou Pilder on October 24, 2012, at 8:48:08
It's generated from a place of hatred that you project on others, not just here, but society in general.
Look in the mirror Lou and you will see your problem.
You are obsessed with finding fault in others that don't exist but I don't ever remember you saying, maybe I was wrong, maybe I misjudged. No, it's your way or the highway.
Man up Lou, you are trying to make people admit fault when the fault lies within you, not them.
You are the hater, you're ego trumps your mind. You can't love because you have to be right. You can't support others because they are wrong.You are tangled in a web of hatred and self-deception. I know as I write this that it will fall on deaf ears and a closed mind.
There can only be one God and you aren't him. Fact is you hate people because no one knows the answers like you do. Are you proud to be king?
You use words to hurt people and you are the one that will ruin this board because others admit faults as you assign blame.Dozens or more have left long ago not just because of Dr Bob but because of you. Are you proud of chasing mentally ill people away because you are never wrong and your ego has turned your heart to coal?
It's ironic that the person here in most need of professional help is the one twisting others' words and telling them that they don't need meds, they need you.
Do you ever stop posting, take a break, take a walk and see the beauty around you? Or do you plot and plan your next one thousand posts that make no sense to anyone but you.
You hate more than anyone you accuse and it's only hurting you.
Have you ever laughed? Have you ever apologized?
Have you ever thought, wow, I can't believe I said that? Have you ever said you're sorry?
Even though I'm trying, there's is no getting through to you. You want the world to follow you and quite frankly you are the scary one. SCARY.
You believe you are superior to others.
You will miss out on opportunities to learn from other people's opinions.
You have to be right to feel important.
Your thinking is linear or one-dimensional.
You have a tendency to dominate a conversation, unable to converse properly, listen or have a normal back and forth dialog. You are only fixated on your opinion and cannot wait for the other person to finish speaking to counter their viewpoint. In some cases you may even interrupt the other person to interject what you need to say.
You have to prove you are right as a way of putting others down or criticizing them. It gives you a feeling of winning, which empowers you.
If you are wrong you feel flawed, inferior, or upset.
Your identity is dependent on your need to feel that you are right.That's all I have to say, buddy. I don't want to be hurtful but I have to wonder if you can feel. These are the last words I'll ever say to you.
One must still have chaos in oneself to be able to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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