Posted by Lou Pilder on March 12, 2008, at 18:41:04
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to twinleaf's post » Lou Pilder, posted by twinleaf on March 12, 2008, at 18:18:58
> Wow, Lou! That's the first post I have seen from you that I feel I might be able to answer!
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> I guess there's just the one- the one we all use in therapy- talking it over until we work out all the differences we can. Hopefully, the remaining differences will be ones we can live with reasonably comfortably. I would really like to see Bob address us all here. The latest problems arose out of proposed rule changes of his, which we learned about because they caused Dinah to feel she should resign from her deputy position. Bob's continuing silence, and his using Dinah to give a partial explanation, leave an extremely bad impression- of indifference towards others, and an unwillingness to accept the responsibility that goes with running an on-line community.
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> All of us are wrestling individually with stressful, uncomfortable feelings about this situation. It would probably help for us to share these with one another. We do tend to polarize, though- for or against, and I'm guilty of that, too.twinleaf,
You wrote,[...talking it over until...problems arose..of his...impression..indifference...responsibiblity...uncomfortable...share...polarize...].
I do agree that a {round table like} discussion could be fruitfull to remedy this situation with the perception on alleviating the emotional consequenses that some have experianced from this situation. Could you post here your first proposal for such?
Lou
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