Posted by muffled on June 19, 2007, at 14:45:17
In reply to Re: please be civil » Dory, posted by Dr. Bob on June 19, 2007, at 3:53:22
> > Apparently, one is supposed to accept that's the way it is.
> >
> > Just drink the Kool aid.
>
> I'm sorry we haven't been able to reach a middle ground, but please don't be sarcastic, post anything that could lead others (such as me) to feel accused, or exaggerate.
>
> But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
>
> If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
>
> Follow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
>
> Thanks,
>
> Bob**OK I had to go back up the thread to see WTF is wrong w/coolaide :-( Sad :-(
I guess dory was just expressing her frustration, but needs to learn to do it the 'babble' way....
So, I guess a better way to say it would have been???
EG:
I feel like there's no recourse for me.
I feel like I wasn't heard or understood in my seriousness of my situation.
I feel very frustrated that there was not any solution that made sense to me, to my problem.
I feel angry and upset.Is that what she should have said?
Or just say nothing at all?
Or re-post to administrators/deputies?
Emotions suck big time, but they pass, and the hurt and fear will ease. But it sucks, damn it sucks.
M
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