Posted by Dr. Bob on January 25, 2007, at 0:28:39
In reply to last little bit and I may have it » Dr. Bob, posted by ElaineM on January 24, 2007, at 22:36:58
> But that is part of the problem. Sometimes you are so hurt by "them" actions you can't express your own feelings. All you see, feel is what has been done to you.
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> MidnightBlueI agree, that's part of the problem...
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> the instances for when muliple PBC's stating the same infraction are allowed to build up, and the instances for when no new PBC's are needed to result in a block, is ultimately an arbitrary decision. I think?
How about "judgment call" instead? :-)
> > I felt like the subject of harassment
> > I felt harassed...
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> So are these the same statement, or not? (Sorry, it didn't say)They're close, but not exactly the same. Since "harassment" refers to the other's actions, while "harassed" refers to the person's own feelings.
> I'll assume since you approved my shot at rephrasing, that using the word "harassed" *is* always alright if used as part of a well structured I-statement.
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> ElWell, I don't know about "always". For example, what about:
> I felt harassed by Elaine.
Bob
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