Posted by Happyflower on December 25, 2006, at 16:17:25
In reply to Re: Restate - *Trigger*, posted by fayeroe on December 25, 2006, at 12:30:57
> we're talking, at least i am, about people repeatedly bringing up the subject and perhaps trying to manipulate other posters into paying them more attention or whatever.........pat
I totally agree with this above statement because I have felt manipulated on more than one instance
and I was
unable to offer the support that I felt was "demanded" by me. I simply will not play into manipulation games here or anywhere else personally for that matter.
I still feel manipulated because the person crying "wolf" knows I won't play the game anymore, and refuses to leave me alone, and is now what I feel is using the stiuation to gain even more attention from others, like poor me, happyflower won't talk to me, is ignoring me,and continues to what I feel is manipulating me through babblemail, threads, and chat. What do I do when I get such a demanding babble mail to either pay attention to me or I will kill myself? But yet when I say they are being manipulating or that I am being manipulated in a secret babble language that I don't understand, I risk getting blocked, when I try to do something about it. Maybe that is the whole idea to hurt others, like me, so they can suppposly feel better about themselves? I don't know, really,but I have had enough BS, and would like the behavior that I feel is harrassing to stop, NOW!
poster:Happyflower
thread:716057
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20061202/msgs/716345.html