Posted by muffled on October 24, 2006, at 1:43:29
In reply to Re: hurt, posted by Dr. Bob on October 24, 2006, at 0:24:04
> > 'Intentional hurt may also be able to be worked out', but if a person is blocked, how is he/she supposed to be able to do that?
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> I guess it depends what kind of working out it would be, and with whom. It may need to wait until afterwards, but contact with me and even other posters is possible while blocked, too.***I think good old talking it out is what i envisioned...
I have contacted you while blocked in the past, to no avail :-(
Now that I have been here awhile, I DO have posters I can contact. But that took time. I didn't have that initially.
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> > its like you don't trust us to even try to work it out :-(
> > The heavy ... hand of Bob comes down to stop us before we even have a chance...
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> Sometimes a heavy hand is necessary. And I'm not here all the time, so everyone always has at least until I'm back...***Yes, sometimes a heavy hand is necessary, but to babblers credit, not very often :-)
But who knows when Bob comes, and when he goes....not much to go on there.....
And I do admit(ugh, hate to admit this..)that when you are gone from the site for extended periods of time....well...all hell sometimes breaks loose...>
> > More pbc's, less blocks....
> > Fosters growth IMO.
> > Honest communication, with NO intent to cause harm or discomfort.
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> Intent is difficult...***Yes it is. But I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt in my world. Its so rewarding when people rise magnificently to the occasion.
It is complicated.
People just baffle me so often.
Oh well.
Take care,
Muffled
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