Posted by corafree on June 6, 2006, at 14:15:47
In reply to Implementation of trigger flags » MidnightBlue, posted by Larry Hoover on June 5, 2006, at 8:30:51
Yes, but ...
My problem (or maybe my salvation) was/is knowing 'what particular language' I used that was 'your trigger'. In that/this confused world, all the dynamics seem to run together. So, I am 'still' asking myself ... 'which word' or 'which sentence' was it that was the trigger.
And, how could have I said it hypothetically?
If I posted again and failed to flag, but then a flag appeared, I might wonder WHY.
Isn't it just as important for the person posting to understand the depth of a trigger as it is the person reading?
In all these years, no one has ever reacted to my situation as you did. I wish they had; but it didn't happen.
I have begun to realize, now, thanks to your reaction, that I've been through quite a lot, and for some reason hadn't/haven't allowed myself to see that before now.
So tell me ... what do you think it was that hurt me the most (Oh .. I'm sorry.) because it all runs together here in my mind and it would be so helpful if someone else could help me to see it.
love,cf
p.s. I've learned more here than from my therapist.
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