Posted by Larry Hoover on March 16, 2006, at 16:49:20
In reply to Re: Lar? » Larry Hoover, posted by gardenergirl on March 16, 2006, at 16:29:56
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> > I would rather have not seen a single word from him, with respect to ignoring my participation in the debate, than have him say the brief few words he did.
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> Any chance there's some transference going on here?Thanks for the suggestion, but this is all Dr. Bob stuff. You see, when a person is blocked, and let's assume the person feels unfairly so, one of the most critical details is that time is of the essence. Six weeks, or whatever, is ticking away, and he has rendered you powerless to speak to the issue. That is, except for email. And let's say he takes three weeks to get back to you, and he asks some question that he should have already known the answer to.....and it takes three more weeks to hear from him....it's almost worst than being ignored altogether. Every time he enjoins you, he fosters hope. But then, he disappears. He doesn't teel you he's disappearing. He just does. And your block expires, and it's been a complete and utter waste. He hasn't met your need for timely resolution. It is rendered moot, and that is not a resolution. There needs to be a better way than Bob is God and you can take it or leave it. I can't even manage to see him as consistent, let alone fair.
Here, he has literally said to me that he is not ignoring me, yet his attention is anywhere else.
It's mad-making. I thought I forgave him. I was trying to work towards meeting everybody's needs. I do have a vision, guiding me.
There's more than just triggers at play in this thread, and it would be naive and insensitive of me to not note those other issues, also. Yes, I do understand the pain and suffering of blocks. Oh, yes I do.
And he ignored me. Or, better yet, I have no convincing evidence to the contrary.
I dunno. I just dunno.
Zen asked a really important question of me. Why do I put energy into this? At this point, I don't know. I must be nuts, to keep trying.
And, given that......
TTF?
Lar
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