Posted by gardenergirl on March 15, 2006, at 16:29:51
In reply to Re: Why did ED_UK Get Blocked?, posted by Phillipa on March 15, 2006, at 16:06:02
Characterizing another post or poster as something negative, as in "unkind" is not considered to be civil. Instead, one could say something like, "I felt slighted" or some other feeling word that represents how the "unkindness" affected the other.
It's all about "I" statemnents rather than "you/it" statements.
gg
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