Posted by Dr. Bob on March 8, 2006, at 0:07:31
In reply to Re: responsibility » Dr. Bob, posted by JenStar on March 7, 2006, at 12:14:33
> I just think it's important not to confuse "asking for assistance" with "attempting to completely offload responsibility and asking someone else to be the gatekeeper for one's own actions."
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> I worry that somebody might try to take it on, and would only disappoint themselves and the asker, because it's an impossible task.
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> I also think it's a good idea for people not to ask for more help than could reasonably be offered by an internet buddy, because it sets them up for disappointment when it can't be given. :)I agree. It's important to clarify what's being asked for and what's being offered...
Bob
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