Posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:13:53
In reply to Please don't post to me » ClearSkies, posted by 5 on March 4, 2006, at 18:55:20
Okay... So we were a lot mad. That doesn't make up for what was said. Sorry about that :-(
I apologise for the sarcasm in 'thanks for your sensitivity'. I felt hurt by your comment that it was a 'silly thing'. It did not feel like a 'silly thing' to me. Even if it was a 'silly thing' you didn't mean to call my (real) hurt a 'silly thing' - did you? I think... Being charitable... That you did not. It didn't seem that way to me at the time... But I should be charitable.
We never meant to come back here and hurt people. But... There are some things that we would like to say to you. Because where we are standing... We feel like you have had a problem with us for a while now... And we would like to either sort it out... Or decide to part amicable ways if possible.
>In fact, seeing as you have made it clear that you object to posters posting a new sentance on a new line, how about just not reading the posts of posters who choose to do that.
That was about your post a while back to the social board. People were talking about a certain posters posting style... Just asking about it and we felt that you jumped in with a judgement. A judgement that is a little like 'we don't like the way you dress' or 'we don't like the colour of your hair'. We felt very hurt by your criticism. We took it personally... Then we thought we should probably be charitable... So we tried... And we apologised to you for taking it personally. And we really need to stop doing that. Because... It was personal. Wasn't it?
> and that you consider they need a radical personality overhaul in order for them to be acceptable to the forum.
That is coming from your comment about 'pervasive posting style' and that the reason for the block was that something more generally was wrong with the posters 'pervasive posting style' and that the poster would keep getting blocked until that changed. Once again... Trying hard to be charitable but you know these little comments just seem to keep on adding up...
We will lift the request.But please think about comments you make and how much they can hurt
:-(
It is not a 'silly little thing'
It is not.
And about the posting the link thing...
Very hurt that you did that AFTER the person saying how they didn't like that. Very hurt. And about saying what you said that was hurtful again. Very hurt about that too.
We think it does come down to the point that it is not another persons place. Because of google. But also the point that it is not another persons place. If the poster decides to do that then that is one thing. But I think the point about the email address is a good one... SOmeone might post theirs somewhere for a specific purpose... My thoughts on that would be that posters shouldn't repost that. Because there is a difference as to whether info occurs once or twice in relatively inconspicuous places and whether info occurs in multiple places on the boards.
Sorry if you are hurting over this.
I've never had a problem with you.
I just find some of your comments to be hurtful.
I'm sorry for mine.
That was badly done.
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