Posted by JenStar on March 2, 2006, at 22:22:25
In reply to Re: Ethics » 5, posted by Deneb on March 2, 2006, at 22:12:51
Or...maybe you could try to use each block as a way to 'desensitize' yourself to the thing? Or a reminder about staying within the boudaries of the site?
I know it's REALLY tempting to just write about whatever you're feeling, whenever you feel it. I feel that way too, a lot of the time. But the site does have boundary conditions that we need to stay inside of.
The time I got blocked I was upset. I was upset at the block. I was MORE upset at myself for allowing myself to get "out of control" and respond emotionally without editing the post. I knew that what I was posting would probably not be acceptable, yet I posted it -- and later on, I felt mad at myself for my lack of control.
I don't want to presume that you feel the same things I feel. But does some of your anger at the block stem from the same thing I was feeling? Or is it still too raw to process that way?
take care,
JenStar
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