Posted by alexandra_k on August 28, 2005, at 21:10:11
In reply to Re: does it really? » alexandra_k, posted by JenStar on August 28, 2005, at 20:39:49
> Deneb's future on the site depends on HER and her own choices about posting. (Just like MY future here depends on what I post.)
Yes. How nice it is to see ones choices... To appreciate what is and is not appropriate and why it is / is not appropriate...
>Although we must have compassion as a group and as individuals, it's also everyone's responsibility to look at the needs of the group, the general triggers, and tailor their posts to match the mood. If one person continually posts things that just don't "go" here, they probably WILL end up engendering negative feelings towards them...
Yes. The consequences. Whether one intends them or not. Whether one forsees them or not. There are consequences. What is hard is not having an understanding of the likely consequences BEFORE the fact.
>I just wanted to say that I'm not "against" Deneb, but I'm still "for" personal responsibility. I think the two are not mutually exclusive.Sure.
> I don't think there is ANY comparison between Deneb and some of the blocked posters (Lou, So.) Although Deneb sometimes posts things that trouble others, she also posts lots of generous, kind, funny and informative posts. She genuinely interacts here. I never saw that from some previous posters.
Then I would like to suggest that you missed out on some of their better posts. All of them by the sounds of it. Thats a shame :-(
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