Posted by alexandra_k on July 23, 2005, at 18:43:48
In reply to Re: Hmmm... I remember that. » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on July 23, 2005, at 18:30:57
> Ummm... Not quite what I meant.
Sorry. That was an attempt at a joke.
> I think I recognize both Dr. Bob's strengths and his weaknesses.Yeah. I didn't mean to suggest that you didn't. I'm sorry - that post really didn't come across at all well...
I don't think I idealise him particularly.
But it is something I think about because I am aware that it is something that can happen.
I disagree with him sometimes. I don't always agree with his decisions. I don't think I place unrealistic expectations on him. I don't think I expect him to be perfect or superhuman.But... Sometimes I do feel pretty mad at him.
So... Why do I feel so mad?
Because I do feel that he has let me down.
So maybe there are some expectations that are there after all...Thats what I meant.
I'm not sure what to do except... That when I feel mad at him then that might indicate that some of that is going on so I need to have a bit of a look at my expectations...
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