Posted by Dinah on July 23, 2005, at 17:48:24
In reply to Re: gender differences » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on July 23, 2005, at 17:09:34
No I don't nearly get as much as Dr. Bob because the roles are different. I reminded him of that above.
The difference would be in comparing Mark and I, not Dr. Bob and I. But the deputy role is so limited, that I don't think there's a chance to study it that well.
I'm not sure I agree though, that humans aren't pack animals like dogs. I certainly have seen the same behaviors. Dogs are just less subtle about it.
Dr. Bob is most likely a self aware individual. While I may look up a book or two and see if I can get hints, I imagine once the prospect comes to his attention, he can monitor himself if he's interested in the idea. As an unneutered male, I'm quite certain that he has at least occasionally experienced the behavior commonly known as p*ssing contests with other males. And he is likely aware of the feelings associated with that behavior. He's probably also aware of protective feelings towards females and what that feels like. There is a difference in the internet, in that the attractiveness of the female isn't readily apparent. Only he can be aware of any feelings he has.
As far as not recognizing feminine aggression. Hmmm.... I'm not sure whether he does or not. But also, it may not fall within the civility guidelines as well, because it is usually not overtly uncivil. So even if he recognizes it, he may not act on it.
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