Posted by pinkeye on July 2, 2005, at 18:39:02
In reply to Re: Definition- Pinkeye » pinkeye, posted by gabbii on July 2, 2005, at 18:26:49
That is true. That is why I apologized. Except that I didn't intend it in a sarcastic or putting down kind of way. But I see how it could have been interpreted as a sarcasm.
I was more like trying to caution her that even he could slip, and asking her to protect herself against taking a severe beating if it happens. It is like when you are dating and you meet a fascinating guy who is extremely good we tell friends "He seems too good to be true.. You enjoy the time, but also remember that people do slip and may not be great all the time".. It is of course pointless I think, but my feeling was like what I said above.
TofuEmmy didn't seem to just ask me to apologize.. It was more like she was accusing me of trying to hurt Daisy.. which is why I felt put down.
> I'm not sure by the way your post was worded, if you you think it would have been okay to have asked the question if you'd worded it like you did above.
> I think that could add an awful lot of stress to someone who's already in a great deal of pain, It's not an issue for her and can't possibly be answered. To me it's like saying to someone who's already at wit's end "Wow, what if you ever lose your job how will you pay your mortgage?" Or "Your husband is so wonderful, what would you do if he left you?"
> What's the good in asking such a question?
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