Posted by gabbii on July 2, 2005, at 18:26:49
In reply to Re: Definition » TofuEmmy, posted by pinkeye on June 30, 2005, at 20:13:53
But I was really not trying to put her down or her therapist. I really honestly think extremely high of Daisy's therapist and Daisy. Maybe you can understand it as something like "Oh he is so extremely good and nice, what if he slips even once, and how will you be affected". That was my intention.
I'm not sure by the way your post was worded, if you you think it would have been okay to have asked the question if you'd worded it like you did above.
I think that could add an awful lot of stress to someone who's already in a great deal of pain, It's not an issue for her and can't possibly be answered. To me it's like saying to someone who's already at wit's end "Wow, what if you ever lose your job how will you pay your mortgage?" Or "Your husband is so wonderful, what would you do if he left you?"
What's the good in asking such a question?
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