Posted by used2b on April 12, 2005, at 22:02:23
In reply to I Made Two Mistakes Yesterday, posted by Mark H. on April 12, 2005, at 12:19:17
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> I sincerely apologize to everyone who was adversely affected, and I will strive not to make those mistakes again.
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> Mark H.I appreciate apology as a sometimes useful social device, Mark, but I am primarily interested in the circumstances that led to these events. My experience with apologies is tainted by my familiarity with cycles of domestic violence.
Health professionals should at least be sensitized to the environment surrounding sexual abuse. But my experience here as been that discussion of social pretense is prohibited, while administrative deputies sometimes feel at liberty to joke about little boys with their pants half down, in the context of an abuse trial. I suspect you would not have made those statements were this a forum dominated by mature, rational dialogue. It is not. It is a touchy feely place where authority dictates who feels what in the context of the corpus.
Social pretense is a critical element of seduction. Seduction is a key element of much sexual abuse of children. Sexual and physical abuse of children trains them to become members of an selfish, authoritarian society in which life is reduced to a commodity. This psychiatrist is not helping cure diseases; he is perpetuating diseases by constructing rationale for social pretenses that facilitate abuse.
Having seen the site owner "make a pass" through the site without addressing this serious concern about sexual humor related to pedophilia, I am shifting to a more combative stance appropriate for confronting social contagion.
Since you seem so troubled by the circumstance, I will consent for you to reply to this username, but it will be in vain. I plan to no longer use this username in any pretense that this is a civil environment. It is a hostile environment. This is not a forum where rational discourse about human psychology is tolerated.
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