Posted by Dinah on June 28, 2004, at 21:28:51
In reply to Re: Ok. I get the civility guideline in effect now., posted by gardenergirl on June 28, 2004, at 13:58:56
I don't know where the post to you fit in to the idea of comments that hurt being ok as long as they are clinical. I don't think it fits at all. Dr. Bob must have made that part of the ruling on another subset of the civility code. Perhaps he thought the poster was joking, or perhaps it's because the poster put in a maybe.
I just wanted to explain the one part of this business that I now understand Dr. Bob's position on and now realize that discussion with him is fruitless on.
I'm really sorry that you were hurt. If it makes any difference, I don't think the poster in question actually knows any of us, and I doubt knew that you were anything other than a therapy client, and probably guessed you had been diagnosed with DID. After all, the poster didn't even know what DID was a week ago. So his remark wasn't made to *you* Gardenergirl, but just to an anonymous "person who falsely believed they had the fraudulent diagnosis of DID." That probably doesn't make it hurt less though.
((((Gardenergirl))))
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